From friends to significant others, business partners, bosses and even long-lost family members, meeting people online is an activity that a lot of people have had to navigate ever since the world became largely digital.
However, in recent times, more and more people are becoming sceptical about meeting people digitally because of the high risk involved. We spoke to 5 Nigerians and they shared their experiences about meeting people online.
Tolu
I met my husband online. We spoke back and forth for like 6 months before we finally decided to meet physically. I was already in love with his words before I even saw his face.
When we had our first real date, I was surprised he hadn’t been trapped by anyone by how handsome he looked. I didn’t want any “Yoruba Demon” to break my heart. Luckily, nothing like that happened and we’re happily married now.
Samuel
All my terrible exes were from social media. I don’t like chatting because people present a fake version of themselves online. If I don’t meet you physically, we can’t even be friends not to talk of dating.
Online babes have shown me pepper. Every time, it’s either I get a case of “what I ordered vs what I got.” The last encounter I had with a woman that I met online involved me calling the police. Use that and imagine what I’ve suffered.
Chris
My best business partner is someone I met in an online business community. He stays in the UK and I live in Nigeria. We’ve been doing business together for over ten years and even raised thousands of dollars for our companies but we’ve never met physically, just texts and video calls.
The amount of trust we have in each other is so much that I can lend him my life’s savings without thinking twice. I even call him my business brother, no longer partner. We have passed the stage of ordinary partner.
Chioma
I have met so many people who have been instrumental in my life online. After my first child, my online community of mothers held my hand and helped me through that stressful period. Knowing that someone fully understood what I was going through was refreshing.
I only made a post about struggling once and different women were flying into my DMs offering both financial and non-financial support. That kind of reaction from strangers was so touching that I broke down and cried that day. I don’t joke with my parenting community on Fusion.
Jeremiah
My experience of meeting people online is mostly centred around books. I didn’t think I would be able to keep up with an online book club but I’ve been in one for 3 years and met some of the coolest people in Lagos in that online club. It has helped me read over two hundred books and gave me some forever friendships. I’m so glad I became a member when I did.
The experience of meeting people online will definitely vary for most people but in most cases, the positives greatly outweigh the negatives. Keep an open mind and engage more in those communities, shoot your shots and send those cold DMs today. Who knows what might come out of it?
Meet friends, partners and employers, and join/create a community of people with the same interests on the Fusion App. Build relationships, connect with interesting people and make seamless transactions all in one place.
1,146 Responses
pillole per erezioni fortissime: viagra senza prescrizione – viagra generico in farmacia costo
Farmacie on line spedizione gratuita: sildenafil oral jelly 100mg kamagra – farmacia online senza ricetta
top farmacia online: kamagra gel prezzo – acquistare farmaci senza ricetta
Farmacia online miglior prezzo: kamagra – farmacie online affidabili
acquistare farmaci senza ricetta: Avanafil a cosa serve – acquistare farmaci senza ricetta
farmacia online: Farmacie online sicure – migliori farmacie online 2024
http://kamagrait.pro/# farmacie online affidabili
viagra generico sandoz: viagra online siti sicuri – viagra originale in 24 ore contrassegno
http://viagragenerico.site/# alternativa al viagra senza ricetta in farmacia
viagra originale in 24 ore contrassegno: viagra senza prescrizione – le migliori pillole per l’erezione
farmacia online senza ricetta: Farmacia online migliore – farmacia online
comprare farmaci online all’estero: Cialis generico 20 mg 8 compresse prezzo – farmacia online
http://tadalafil.auction/# indian cialis generic
cialis daily use side effects: cialis in australia – cialis 20 mg tablets
http://tadalafil.auction/# generic cialis 40 mg
cialis suppliers: cialis no prescriotion – how can i get cialis in australia
cialis express delivery australia: Generic Cialis without a doctor prescription – professional cialis
http://tadalafil.auction/# cialis 100mg from china
https://tadalafil.auction/# buy cialis online in australia
cialis paypal bezahlen: cialis without a doctor prescription – cialis with dapoxetine usa
how does viagra work: Viagra online price – viagra for women
levitra versus cialis: Buy Tadalafil 20mg – generic cialis vs cialis
https://tadalafil.auction/# buy black cialis
http://tadalafil.auction/# buy cialis tadalafil
buy viagra online without a prescription: Viagra online price – viagra coupon
http://indiapharmacy.shop/# best online pharmacy india
https://indiapharmacy.shop/# Online medicine order
http://edpillpharmacy.store/# where to buy erectile dysfunction pills
ed medications online
https://mexicopharmacy.win/# pharmacies in mexico that ship to usa
order ed pills
reputable indian pharmacies: Online pharmacy – indian pharmacies safe
https://mexicopharmacy.win/# mexican mail order pharmacies
buying ed pills online
purple pharmacy mexico price list: Purple pharmacy online ordering – mexican rx online
https://edpillpharmacy.store/# cheap ed drugs
http://edpillpharmacy.store/# where to get ed pills
ed doctor online
https://indiapharmacy.shop/# top 10 pharmacies in india
online ed drugs
reputable mexican pharmacies online: Certified Mexican pharmacy – medication from mexico pharmacy
п»їlegitimate online pharmacies india: Online India pharmacy – reputable indian pharmacies
http://mexicopharmacy.win/# reputable mexican pharmacies online
https://edpillpharmacy.store/# buying ed pills online
mexican mail order pharmacies: Best online Mexican pharmacy – mexican online pharmacies prescription drugs
indian pharmacy: world pharmacy india – indianpharmacy com
medication from mexico pharmacy: Purple pharmacy online ordering – buying from online mexican pharmacy
https://indiapharmacy.shop/# top 10 online pharmacy in india
buy ed meds: Cheapest online ED treatment – ed meds online
http://mexicopharmacy.win/# medicine in mexico pharmacies
india online pharmacy: Indian pharmacy international shipping – top online pharmacy india
low cost ed meds online: online ed prescription same-day – cheap boner pills
best online pharmacies in mexico: mexico pharmacy win – purple pharmacy mexico price list
https://indiapharmacy.shop/# best online pharmacy india
http://indiapharmacy.shop/# world pharmacy india