How To Meet People Online (Especially In Nigeria)

As the world becomes more digital, so have many other aspects of our life evolved including how we meet people. 20 years ago, nobody in Nigeria would believe you if you told them that you met your partner online. 

Today, social media and dating apps have become the go-to for meeting people and finding love. However, there are a few things to keep in mind when looking to meet people online.

Meeting people online is great but it can also be dangerous. For one, there have been cases of unscrupulous people posing to be ‘friends’ and kidnapping the subject when they decided to meet physically. 

There are also several instances of innocent people falling victim to romance scams. These are often elaborate schemes where someone pretends to be interested in you, but their real goal is to get money or personal information from you. If someone you’ve met online starts to ask for money, it’s a red flag that they may be a scammer. Remember the Tinder Swindler? He was known to go on dating apps, get women to fall in love with them and then swindle them, making away with millions of dollars.

Having said that, if something feels off about someone you’ve met online, trust your instincts and don’t hesitate to end the conversation. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.This is not to scare you into completely avoiding meeting people online. But, it is important to be aware of the risks and take steps to protect yourself.

For all the ‘God when’ chanters who are still searching for ‘The One’ in their shokoto, they just might be in Sokoto. 

So, how can you find them? 

Try Duolingo

Isn’t that the language app with the green, stalking owl? 

Yes, it’s the very one. 

How can I meet the LOML here? 

Well, we are not saying you would and we are not saying you wouldn’t, but why not give it a try?

Duolingo is an amazing language learning platform that’s available as a website and an app. It’s completely free to use, and has courses in over 30 languages. The lessons are short and easy to follow, and they include a variety of different activities to help you learn. 

Another great feature of Duolingo is its “social learning” aspect. The platform has a built-in forum where you can ask questions and get help from other users. You can also follow other users and see their progress. 

To find the love of your life on this app, you would need to choose a language to learn, follow someone, they follow back, you congratulate each other on your streak and before you know it you could be BFFs or even lovebirds. Before you say we’re unhinged, there’s a real story behind this. So take a language lesson now! 

PS: If you finish learning a language and still haven’t found someone, you can console yourself in a different language. Desole, mon ami, desole. 

Badoo

Badoo is a dating and social networking site that’s available in 190 countries and 47 different languages. Using a combination of location-based matching and a swiping system, it connects users with potential dates or friends. Badoo is unique because it combines social networking features with a dating platform. 

It allows users to chat, share photos and videos, and even play games with other users. There’s also a “lookalikes” feature that matches you with people who look similar to celebrities or people you follow on social media. 

The app has over 400 million users worldwide, so there’s a big pool of potential matches. It also has some unique safety features, like a photo verification system and a “selfie request” feature that allows you to request a real-time photo from another user to verify their identity. 

Fusion

Fusion is a community-based social app that allows you to find your tribe and connect with like-minds. There is an array of communities available on Fusion, from business to money, to fashion, lifestyle and so much more. It has a group chat and direct messaging feature as well so it’s easy for you to shoot your shot at whoever catches your fancy.

Its ‘rewards’ feature also lets you tip people when they make posts or comments that you like or resonate with. So when someone you like makes a post, you can reward them to get their attention. Smooth, right?

It’s a great platform to meet people online. It’s perfect for creators, business owners, students and even 9-5ers so whatever your spec is, you’re sure to find someone. Plus, if you hurry, you just might find someone in time for Valentines. Download the app and start building connections today!

Friendite

Friendite is a dating app that’s popular in Africa, especially Nigeria. Like Badoo, it has a combination of social networking and dating features. It’s available in English and the three major Nigerian languages, including Yoruba, Hausa, and Igbo. 

Founded in 2012, the app is designed to connect people who share similar interests and values, and it focuses on creating meaningful connections. One unique feature of Friendite is the ability to send messages to other users without revealing your phone number or other personal information. 

It has a “matchmaker” feature that lets you match friends with other users on the app. Friendite also has a “mentor” feature, which allows you to connect with more experienced users who can offer advice and guidance. It’s like having a virtual wingman or wingwoman! There’s also a “blog” feature that lets you share your thoughts and experiences with other users. 

Plus, there’s a “meetup” feature that lets you organize in-person meetups with other users in your area. 

Fiesta

Fiesta is a dating app that’s focused on helping people find friends, dates, and relationships. It has some interesting features, like “photo challenges” and “popularity rankings” that encourage users to be active on the app. 

One of the coolest things about Fiesta is its “discovery” feature. It allows you to explore other users’ profiles and photos, and to find people who match your interests. It’s a great way to find people who share your hobbies and passions. It also has a “chat rooms” feature that lets you connect with other users in group chats. 

Fiesta has a “travel mode” feature that lets you connect with people in other cities and countries. This is perfect for people who love to travel, or for those who want to meet people from all over the world. You can even set your location to a specific city and see who’s available to chat.

International Cupid

International Cupid is a dating site that’s specifically designed for people who are interested in international relationships. It’s available in over 25 countries and has over 1 million members. It’s a great option for people who are looking to date someone from a different country or culture. (Or if you want to do japa package. IYKYK)

The platform has a lot of great features that make it stand out from other dating sites. It has a detailed profile system that allows you to share a lot of information about yourself, and to really get to know other members. It also has a great messaging system that allows you to chat with other members in real-time. 

One of the things that makes International Cupid stand out is its “Cupid Tags” feature. This allows you to add tags to your profile that describe your personality, interests, and hobbies. These tags make it easier for other members to find you, and to see if you have things in common. It’s a great way to meet people online and connect with those who share your interests.

When looking to meet people online, remember to always be yourself. It’s easy to pretend to be someone else when you’re behind a screen, but that’s not a healthy way to build a relationship. Be honest about who you are, and don’t be afraid to show your personality. The right people will appreciate you for who you are, and you’ll be more likely to find a lasting connection.