For most Nigerian women, the expectation is that they would get married and become mothers after a certain age. Once they pass that age, they start getting funny glances and questions from friends, families and even strangers.
However, some of these women are deviating from the norm and choosing themselves over people’s expectations of them. We spoke to some of them and they shared the reasons why they currently do not want any kids of their own.
Nanya
I’m the first-born daughter of an Igbo family and you know what that means. I had to take care of my siblings and even my parents. All that homemaking has really put me off the idea of motherhood. I like to say that I was literally robbed of my childhood. I don’t think I want to be fully responsible for anyone ever again. I’m officially retired from homemaking.
Janet
Growing up, I had always loved kids. So naturally, I assumed I wanted them. I mean I love them, so why not have them? Turns out I was wrong. When I grew up, I realized that as amazing and adorable as they are, kids come with a truckload of drama, tantrums and so much neediness. As I am like this, I’m even looking for someone to adopt me so if you’re a rich billionaire that’s looking for an overgrown baby, hit me up. Don’t worry, I know how to spend money.
Yetunde
I’m too Independent and I love it! I don’t want to be at a party and start thinking of my child that I left at home and I can’t trust someone else to take care of. With the way my life is set up and the amount of enjoyment I see in my future, I don’t think I want to carry that kind of responsibility. Maybe in the future when I’ve lived my best baby girl life.
Osas
Childbirth is TOO painful. I have done my fair share of research and listened to countless horrid stories about giving birth. I’ve seen enough to make me decide that that level of pain is not my portion. Not in this life, or in the next and no one can change my mind. Trust me, a lot of people have tried (unsuccessfully). I don’t want to hear that there are painless deliveries, they aren’t the norm. The painful ones are.
Boma
I do not know if I do not want kids exactly but what I don’t want is marriage. I don’t want to get married and I don’t think I want to undergo the torture of explaining why I don’t have a husband but have a child to Nigerian elders. It might sound like a stupid decision but I really don’t care that much. I like where I am in my career and I think a child wouldn’t exactly help to advance that.
Children are a “gift” that everyone doesn’t have to accept. Women should not be expected to give their time and lives for childbirth if they aren’t interested. They shouldn’t also be threatened with old age and loneliness, they can have full, long and happy lives without kids.
For interesting conversations and amazing connections, join Fusion’s communities today.
Click here to download.
985 Responses
pin-up casino giris pin-up casino giris pin-up casino giris
canl? casino: casino sitesi – en iyi casino siteleri
mail order pharmacy india: indian pharmacy online – indianpharmacy com
http://mexicanpharm1st.com/# medication from mexico pharmacy
remedies for ed: best cure for ed – drugs prices
india pharmacy: online shopping pharmacy india – indian pharmacy online
buying prescription drugs in mexico online: buying prescription drugs in mexico – medication from mexico pharmacy
https://indianpharm1st.com/# buy prescription drugs from india
online shopping pharmacy india india pharmacy mail order buy medicines online in india
ed causes and treatment: over the counter erectile dysfunction pills – best canadian online pharmacy
indianpharmacy com: indian pharmacy online – world pharmacy india
http://drugs1st.store/# ed clinic
mexican rx online: medication from mexico pharmacy – mexican border pharmacies shipping to usa
reputable indian online pharmacy best online pharmacy india buy medicines online in india
non prescription ed drugs: erectile dysfunction medications – best ed pills
best online pharmacies in mexico: mexican border pharmacies shipping to usa – best online pharmacies in mexico
https://mexicanpharm1st.com/# mexico drug stores pharmacies
mexican online pharmacies prescription drugs: mexican mail order pharmacies – buying prescription drugs in mexico
natural ed pills: drug medication – male dysfunction
reputable mexican pharmacies online: buying from online mexican pharmacy – buying prescription drugs in mexico
ed cure erectile dysfunction medications cat antibiotics without pet prescription
pharmacy website india: п»їlegitimate online pharmacies india – online shopping pharmacy india
http://indianpharm1st.com/# mail order pharmacy india
mexican border pharmacies shipping to usa: medicine in mexico pharmacies – mexico drug stores pharmacies
пин ап: Пин Ап Казино Официальный Сайт в России – Официальный Сайт
http://biznes-fabrika.kz/# пин ап казино онлайн
pin up casino
http://pinupzerkalo.fun/# пинап казино
пин ап казино: пинап казино – бонусы пин ап
https://sweetbonanzatr.pro/# sweet bonanza tr
pin up casino
пин ап казино пин ап казино пинап
http://biznes-fabrika.kz/# пин ап кз
https://sweetbonanzatr.pro/# sweetbonanzatr.pro
pinup bet and casino
пин ап казино: пинап – pin up kz
sweet bonanza sweetbonanzatr.pro sweetbonanzatr.pro
https://pinupzerkalo.fun/# пинко
pin up 306: pin-up casino giris – pinup az
pinco: pin up zerkalo – pinco
https://sweetbonanzatr.pro/# sweet bonanza nas?l oynan?r
pin up zerkalo
pin up kz: пины – пин ап кз
sweet bonanza tr: sweet bonanza – sweet bonanza nas?l oynan?r
sweet bonanza sweet bonanza tr sweet bonanza oyna
пин ап кз: пины – пинап казино
https://sweetbonanzatr.pro/# sweet bonanza oyna
pin up zerkalo
Пин Ап Казахстан: пинап казино – пины
http://biznes-fabrika.kz/# пин ап 634
pin up win
http://biznes-fabrika.kz/# Пин Ап Казино Официальный Сайт
sweet bonanza nas?l oynan?r sweet bonanza sweetbonanzatr.pro
пинап казино: Пин Ап Казино Официальный Сайт – пин ап казино
sweet bonanza tr: sweet bonanza nas?l oynan?r – sweet bonanza
https://sweetbonanzatr.pro/# sweet bonanza
pin up win