In Nigeria, everyone knows the true secret to success: looking the part. Because, let’s face it – whether you have the account balance of an Otedola or a five-digit balance that with a sprinkle of “God abeg“, it’s important to look like you’ve got it all. Bad economy or not, you can’t afford to lose your steeze.
With the right techniques, you too can give off “new money” energy without spending new money. It’s all about “faking it till you make it.“
Here’s a guide to looking like you ball on a budget; because sometimes you just have to look richer than your wallet says you are.
1. Borrow the Look
You don’t need a designer wardrobe o, you just need friends who do. Got a friend who has their Gucci, Louis Vuitton, Fendi, and Givenchy game on lock? That’s your ticket. Casually “borrow” their outfits (and accessories. Very important!) whenever there’s a wedding or “soft life” outing on the calendar. But please, don’t go and slim-fit an outfit you borrowed from somebody o. That’s diabolical.
If you’re really dedicated, find friends with a similar shoe size – shoes make the man, after all.
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2. Snap Selectively: Curate Like an Art Gallery
On a budget but want to flex on Instagram? Selective snapping is your best friend. Don’t just take any picture; curate it. Only snap that part of the restaurant that has fancy decor, and remember, the table with only water bottles is not for the ‘gram.
If you’re at an event, find the most luxurious corner and stand in front of it like it’s your personal mansion. Also, never post the whole plate of food at Amala joints; crop it to just the fancy glass of water and maybe the spoon. With the right filter, you’ll look like you’re having a “light lunch” at a 5-star restaurant instead of your favorite mama-put.
3. Maximize “Soft Life” Locations for Free
Why pay to live the soft life when there are places that let you flex for free? Five-star hotel lobbies, beach fronts, and high-end cafes (Cafe One hubs have really amazing interiors) don’t always charge for entry, so take advantage. Dress up, walk into a hotel lobby like you’re waiting for your “private jet” to refuel, and snap away.
Feeling fancy? Order a single drink (the cheapest one on the menu, of course) and take all the photos you can. You can even add a story with a fancy caption like, “Soft life doesn’t come cheap, but you get what you pay for.” No one needs to know you only spent N2,500.
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4. Rock Those Knockoffs Like a Pro
If you’re looking to ball on a budget, you may not afford real designer wears, but the market has a solution – knockoffs. Just make sure the knockoff is good enough not to embarrass you; nobody wants a Louis “Victim” logo showing up in their pictures.
Wear it with confidence, and if anyone raises an eyebrow, tell them it’s “vintage.” Half of the flex is in how you sell it, so start practicing your “designer” lingo now. And please, never stand too close to someone with the real thing. That way, your illusion of luxury stays intact.
5. Arrive in Style, Even If It’s Keke Napep
You don’t need to own a car to be a baller – just arrive in one. Call an Uber to drop you off at events and make sure you leave before anyone can ask if you drove.
If Uber’s out of your budget, no worries – take danfo and get off at the bus-stop closest to your destination. Dust yourself off, and strut in like you just stepped out of a Rolls-Royce. When leaving, just walk out with your phone to your ear, telling your “driver” to pull up.
6. Learn the Art of Cashless Splurging
Nothing says “I’m important” like tapping your card for payment. When you’re buying something, whether it’s bread or bubble tea, reach for your card and hand it over with the attitude of someone who doesn’t even check their account balance.
The secret to is to only do this where you’re certain the amount is within your budget because you don’t want the “insufficient balance” pop-up ruining your reputation.
7. Treat Everyone Like Your “Personal Assistant”
To ball on a budget is all about the vibes you give off! Talk to people like you’re running a small empire, and everyone is in on your vision. When you’re in public, pretend you’re speaking to your “PA” or “accountant” on the phone, maybe even “investors.”
Use terms like “circulate the funds,” “pull the data,” or “secure that deal” (even if the “deal” is deciding whether to add extra beef to your amala). Confidence is key, and if you sell it right, people will assume you’re in on some top-level transactions.
8. Own the Vibe with Catchphrases
Every budget baller needs the right catchphrases. Learn the rich person lingo: throw out casual remarks like, “You know how it is in Lagos,” “Money no be problem,” or “I’ll speak with my accountant.” They work for any situation where people are gauging the weight of your wallet.
9. End Every Outing with “It’s Just Small Change”
When it’s time to split the bill, pull out the ultimate flex: downplay it. Even if you’re counting coins in your mind, toss out a cool “It’s just small change.” Everyone around will assume you’re just too humble to flaunt, and nothing says “I have money” quite like a well-executed understatement.
10. Wear Sunglasses Everywhere
Sunglasses are the ultimate accessory for looking effortlessly sophisticated. Whether it’s sunny or not, throw on a pair like you’re stepping out of a meeting with an important client or heading to a private event. Sunglasses instantly elevate your vibe, giving off an air of mystery and importance. No one knows if you’re just hiding tired eyes or if you’re simply too cool for eye contact.
Also, you don’t need to splurge on a designer pair. You can get a stylish look from any street vendor, and ‘nobody’s gonna know’.
Go for solid frames that scream “I’m too busy to notice you”. They create a vibe of confidence and give you that “I’m too important for small talk” look.
You don’t need to empty your account to look like a baller in Nigeria. The key is confidence, selectiveness, and, most importantly, having the right people to flex in front of.
At the end of the day, it’s all about the vibes – and with the right vibes, who’s checking your account balance anyway?
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