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If you’ve ever stood awkwardly at a social event pretending to be deeply invested in the printed program or pretending to text someone just to avoid eye contact; congratulations, you are one of us. 

Welcome to the club of introverts who want to “put themselves out there” but also want to go home immediately.

Networking for introverts doesn’t have to feel like stress and trauma. You can actually survive (and maybe even thrive) at events.

Here’s a guide to faking confidence, making connections, and not looking like you accidentally wandered into the wrong building.

RELATED: How to Choose An Event That Matches Your Energy 

1. Perfect Your Entry Strategy

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The first rule of introvert survival is: look like you belong. Even if you’re internally panicking.

Walk in like you’re the event host. Smile at the air. Nod at invisible people. If someone makes eye contact, give them the universal “I’m-friendly-but-shy” smile. DO NOT hover near the entrance like you’re waiting to be picked up by your mum.

2. Find Your Safe Zone

Every event has a corner that is introvert-friendly. Scope out the snack table (because food doesn’t judge), the merch booth, or somewhere with low human traffic.

Then pretend you’re doing something important; like reading the event banner or checking if the small chops bangs (it usually does). Use that time to scan the room for approachable people (read this as: other introverts pretending to be busy).

3. Master the Art of Small Talk

You don’t need to start with “So, what do you do?” like you’re interviewing for LinkedIn Live. Try:

  • “This small chops is giving.”
  • “Do you also not know what’s happening or is it just me?”
  • “I’m just here for the vibes and maybe the free merch.”

Light. Playful. Non-committal. Small talk with a side of wit.

RELATED: How to Dress for Social Events Without Looking Like You Tried Too Hard

4. Host Your Own Event on Fusion (Yes, YOU!)

Plot twist: the easiest way to not feel out of place is to be the person making the rules. And guess what? On Fusion, any community owner can host and manage their own event.

From hangouts and workshops to webinars and unplanned-but-somehow-packed events, you can:

  • Create an event from your community page
  • Promote it to fellow Fusers
  • Track RSVPs with ease
  • Sell tickets (even to non-Fusion users!)

You don’t even have to know everyone personally; Fusion handles the logistics so you can focus on creating vibes and curating experiences that attract like minds (and maybe future besties).

5. Fake Confidence

If you’ve ever done the “confident walk” to the bathroom mirror to hype yourself up, apply that same energy here.

Stand tall. Say things like “Let’s connect!” even if you’re not sure what that means. Exchange business cards or contacts. Laugh at jokes (even if they’re mid). Nod thoughtfully like you’ve just heard something deep when really you’re thinking about going home.

You’re not lying, you’re networking.

6. Exit Gracefully, Not Desperately

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Don’t sneak out like a thief in the night. Say a few goodbyes. Compliment someone’s earrings. Make a dramatic exit like you’ve got a yacht party to attend.

Then go home, remove your shoes, and celebrate the fact that you survived another day of social contact. You did it, champ.

Networking isn’t just for extroverts who talk for fun. It’s for anyone who wants to build connections, share ideas, or at least find someone who won’t judge them for hustling for merch.

And with Fusion, you don’t have to wait to be invited. Create your own stage. Host your own event. Promote your ideas. And if you’re still shy? Just fake it till you make it.

Go forth, mingle, and remember: confidence is just socially acceptable delusion.

Join Fusion today to learn more about our event management features.

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Nesiama Fasola
Nesiama Fasola
Nesiama (Ness) Fasola is a community manager, tech enthusiast, writer and full time hopeless romantic. She loves to scribble words in a bid to make sense of the jumble of thoughts, ideas and emotions that constantly plague her mind. At her leisure, you can either find her nose-deep in a book, brewing coffee or poking around in her garden.

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