After months of back-to-back applications, and just when you were about to give up, you finally landed your first job, CONGRATULATIONS! You’ve officially crossed over from being a young adult to being “an adult with bills.”
But here’s what nobody warned you about: the real adulting starts after you sign the contract. Suddenly, you’re thrown into a world of back-to-back deadlines, and endless emails.
There are times you’re trying to figure out how to look busy when you’re not, remembering 12 different passwords by heart, and pretending you totally understood everything from orientation. It’s overwhelming, sometimes hilarious, and occasionally bathroom-cry worthy.
Before you lose your mind, here are 6 survival tips to help you through your first job.
1. Master The Art Of “Looking Busy”
Open 17 tabs; one tab for your actual task, five for “research,” two for YouTube tutorials on how to do said task, and at least one for memes to keep you sane.
Keep Excel front and center, sigh dramatically while staring at your screen like you’re solving serious numbers, add the occasional head tilt and a concerned eyebrow furrow, and voilà you look like the “Office MVP.”
Half the battle of surviving your first job is looking like you know what you’re doing, even when you have no clue.
2. Find That Coworker
The one who knows where the good coffee is, when to leave before traffic hits, and how to whisper “don’t volunteer for that project.” They’re your lifeline.
They’re basically your corporate “spirit guide,” they know which meeting you can safely turn your camera off for, the exact time you should leave work to avoid Lagos heavy traffic. Befriend them immediately.
3. Never Underestimate The Power Of Snacks
That 3 p.m. crash is real, and suddenly an email that says “per my last message” feels like a personal attack. The trick? Build yourself a snack survival kit.
We’re talking cheese balls, gummy bears, 10 chocolate bars for the truly desperate times. A well-fed brain writes better emails and handles last-minute “urgent” tasks without wanting to sneak out the toilet window.
Think of snacks as your emotional support system. Plus, nothing builds alliances faster than sliding someone a chocolate bar in a stressful meeting.
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4. Bathroom Breaks Are For Deep Breathing
Sometimes work feels like an extreme sport, and you need to step away before you snap at a coworker who just “quickly circled back” for the fifth time today.
The office bathroom is your safe zone, take a minute to rehearse that “I’m totally following this confusing meeting” face; the one where you nod thoughtfully and squint like you’re decoding the stock market.
Splash some water on your face, reapply lip balm like you’ve got your life together, and give yourself the kind of pep talk you didn’t know you needed. Sometimes, all it takes is 90 seconds of privacy and a deep breath to go from “I quit” to “I got this.”
5. Give Yourself Grace
Your first job isn’t an exam where you’re graded on having all the answers, it’s easy to feel like you’re failing if you don’t know how to format a report or navigate office politics on day one, but newsflash: “nobody expects you to.”
What matters is that you’re willing to ask questions, learn, and keep showing up, even when you’d rather flush your laptop down the toilet after your fifth “urgent” email of the morning.
Progress in your first job looks less like perfection and more like survival, tiny wins, and figuring out the difference between “reply” and “reply all.”
6. Remember: Pay Day Will Come
There’s nothing quite like that magical moment when you log into your bank app and see actual money with your name attached to it. Sure, the amount may not make you the next billionaire, but the thrill is unmatched.
Suddenly, the 8 a.m. alarms, the confusing meetings, and the awkward “per my last email” exchanges feel slightly more tolerable.
That first paycheck is proof that you survived the chaos, you’re building independence, and you can now treat yourself to something good. So when work gets rough, remind yourself that payday always comes, and that sweet dopamine hit makes all the stress almost worth it.
Think of your first job as the tutorial stage in a video game, you’ll mess up an email, forget someone’s name in a meeting, or spend two hours panicking over a task that turns out to be way simpler than you thought. These moments aren’t failures, they’re building blocks.
Give yourself credit for the little victories: making it to work on time, surviving meetings without zoning out completely, and slowly understanding what your boss means by “circle back.” That’s growth.
Perfection isn’t the goal. Progress is. Show up, ask questions, accept help, and trust that with time, you’ll feel less like an overwhelmed intern and more like a confident pro. And one day, when a new hire asks you for advice, you’ll smile and say, “Oh, I cried in the bathroom too, you’ll be fine.”
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